10 Ways to Start Conversation with a Hot Girl

Talking to girl is usually a nightmare for most guys especially if it is a hot girl who is way out of the guy’s league. Guys always boast that they can do anything but when it comes to starting a conversation with a girl who they like or have a crush on, they chicken out. And believe me it is not a piece of cake! You must know what to do and what not do, during your first conversation with a girl. As it is aptly said, first impression is the last impression. You might not get a second chance if a girl gets an impression that you are a maniac.

It is usually the beauty of the girl or great body that attracts a guy towards her. You may be having a long time crush on a cute brunette in your class or work place, or someone you had seen at a pub or coffee shop but might be too shy or lack the confidence to approach her.


Even though some are able to gather the courage to approach her, but they usually tend to make a fool out of themselves by not knowing what to say or literally creep or bore the hell out of the girl by a nonstop chit chat. So what does one need to do to start a conversation with a hot girl? Here are 10 ways which might help you to do the seemingly impossible task.

10. Look Presentable

The reason that you want to talk to a girl must be her good looks because no one can literally be so intuitive to get to know anybody’s personality just by a glance at her. If that is true, you too must look presentable in front of her, right! Most girls would turn a person down even before he starts saying anything, if he is looking like someone coming straight out of bed.
Make sure your hair is combed and you don’t have a bad breath. Use a deodorant, but do not bathe in perfume. Dress nicely and do some self grooming and you will eventually get the confidence to walk up to a girl and will also help you get a positive response from her. And there is a good chance that you might get a few good looks from other girls too.

9. Don’t Startle her

If you see a beautiful girl in a coffee shop who has just taken your breath away and you are dying to talk to her, then the worst thing you could do is to go straight towards her and say something cheesy or cliched. Most probably she will get so shocked with you coming out of nowhere that she might run away or give you a piece of her mind without even listening to you. So it will be better if you have some patience and rather than startling her, first make her notice you.
You may stare at her for some time and when she notices you, give her your most charming smile. Let her know that you are interested in her and are coming to say hello. Some girls might like to get mysterious letters or complementing messages. You can ask the waiter to give the girl an anonymous message written by you e.g. you may write that “you have a beautiful smile” and see how she reacts. If she smiles and searches for the sender then you will get your green signal, but if she gets angry then thank God and get the hell out of there because it isn’t going to be very pretty.

8. Be Confident

Approach the girl with confidence. Act cool and once you get in a conversation with the girl, be confident in your talks. There is an equal chance that she might be as nervous as you are, so don’t get tensed or let it show in your behaviour and body language. Do not stammer as it gives a very bad impression. Act like you don’t need her, this will increase her interest in you but don’t be rude while doing so.

7. Keep it Simple

Usually, guys make the mistake of smooth talking with girls. A girl knows when she is being hit on so, save the trouble to think of something overly smart to say. Keep it simple by saying a “hi” or “hello” and try not to say those horrible pick up lines. You are no Charlie Sheen, first get that straight. And, if you think a girl would like to listen somebody tell her that “I think your father is a terrorist because you are a bomb” then you are thoroughly mistaken. She will rather take that as an insult. You can later compliment her about her smile or eyes or say that how good she looks in the dress she is wearing.

6. Play the Gentleman in Distress

Girls love to help, they like feeling that they are needed. So you can try asking her for some help, may be ask her for directions to some place that you have to be or you can ask her, if she knows any good restaurants in town. This will give you an opportunity to start a conversation and may be later you can ask her to see you later sometime. These will make her feel that you are genuine and for sure won’t freak her out.

5. Don’t Fake

Some guys in their desperation to talk to a girl, pretend to be someone they are not. Don’t go acting fake. It is very easy to notice when a guy is pretending. Girls hate being manipulated. Be genuine in front of her and do not lie about anything. Don’t try to pretend that you are super rich or anything like that and even if you are, do not boast about it.

4. Laugh with her

Girls like to be with guys who have a good sense of humor and those who can make her laugh. While talking to her make her laugh, say something funny. Show her your sense of humor this will keep the conversation light and she might find your company interesting. You might flirt a little but don’t go cracking double meaning jokes. Don’t even dare to say anything vulgar. While cracking jokes don’t make her feel left out by joking about things she is not familiar with rather comment on your shared surroundings. And remember laugh with her and not at her!

3. Listen to her

Girls are supposed to be chatter boxes and guys tend to tune them out after sometime. But it would be better if you attentively listen to what she says because if she stops and asks you something you must be able to answer her and not look like a dumb. While talking to her, do not continuously blab about yourself only,rather you should ask about her. You should give her a chance to tell you about herself or about her work, family,etc. Don’t worry she will have enough to keep the conversation going for quite some time. If sometime during the conversation you couldn’t help yourself and stopped listening and she asked you something and you have no clue what to say then a quick way to get out of it is to apologize and tell her how mesmerizing her voice sounds.

2. Maintain Eye Contact

While talking to a girl, you must make sure that you look her in the eye. We understand that the girl might be really hot with particularly great assets but you do not want to get caught looking at her body, especially her breasts while she is talking to you. Most girls will not like that at all and they might think that you are actually a pervert and you might get a tight slap on your face. It can be pretty embarrassing, trust me! And there is a fat chance that you will be able to come with something witty to tell her as to why you were staring at her tits.

1. Leave on a High Note

While leaving tell her how nice it was to talk to her or that it was a pleasure to have been able to spend time with her. Make her believe that meeting her was the best moment of your day and you would love to do it again. Be polite with her and give her your card( if you have one) or your number and tell her to call you if she ever needs any help. May be the next time you see her, you won’t have to think of ways to start conversation with her, rather she will be keen to join you.