Dear ladies, this is for you.. You were so hopeful he was going to pop the question on valentine's day but he didn't...
If you had your heart a little broken this past valentine's
day because you thought he was going to get on one knee but he didn't ,
don't fret. There are many reasons why you are in a seemingly perfect
relationship but your man has not taken it to the next level-here are
some:
He's not financially ready
He just might
be saving up some money to first of all buy you an instagram-worthy
ring/plan the proposal …and you know with the proposal comes the wedding
and he's really looking at his bank account. Most guys would like to be
financially settled at least- have a house, maybe a car...before
getting hitched.
What are his friends doing?
If
none of your babe's friends are married then…he might not want to be
the first to do it. If he has mostly married friends they would even
encourage him to see the need to get married so he would easily
figure…"ah…I need to do what my mates are doing, i'm not getting any
younger"
He's a bit scared
It is romantic but
definitely not a walk in the park for a man to propose to a woman even
though he knows the answer will be "yes!"? There might also be the fear
of getting married…like this is going to be the only woman forever and
ever and ever-the woman he would grow old and grey with…even for women
the thought is scary. Making the decision to get married is a BIG DEAL!
So maybe your guy is just scared and needs to man up.
He has unfinished projects
If
he still has unfinished business then he might not be considering
proposing, that does not mean he will not eventually pop the question,
it's just that on his top ten list you're probably number 3 –if you can
figure out what number 1 and 2 are then you know how long you will have
to wait.
He does not want to marry....you
This
bitter bill is very hard to swallow: some guys will string a girl
along forever and ever till she figures that she needs to move on. They
have no plans of getting married to you and are just enjoying the
comfort zone.
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