Every guy expects certain things from a relationship. Some guys
are just looking for one night stands but guys who are really looking for
commitment start dreaming about certain aspects for a relationship before
they’re even dating. It’s similar to a girl’s dream of a perfect wedding. Men
have fears and quirks and many other things.
Here are some of the things men expect from relationships.
1. Freedom:
Men really want you to have your own life. They want you to have
your own set of friends, activities, and passions. So let him roam too. Let him
have his own time. When he returns and notices your ever-welcoming attitude, he
will be more than happy.
Men do want a dual life but they also love to sneak out a bit
every once in a while. As long as it does not affect your relationship, let him
avail his freedom. It is beautiful what they say about couples, “Let’s put your
relationship on wheels. One is yours. One is mine. And together, we’ll ride.”
2. Being an Open Book to him:
Men are mysterious but at the same time, they are
straight-forward and honest about themselves. They want you to communicate
directly; treat them the same way. They don’t get clues. They need things
spelled out.
Without clarity, relationships are built on sand. Explain it to
them. Model how you would like them to communicate back. They need you to tell
them. Be clear to them, share the important moments of your life with him.
3. Every bit of Your Attention:
Most of the women do not express themselves, presuming that men
do not appreciate too much expression. Men want to know what is going on in
your heads. Be honest and reveal yourself. Couples grow and get stronger
overcoming adversity, not by living life separately.
Know that every time you hold things in, you are building walls
inside the sacred space of the relationship. Men need every bit of your
attention just like you need theirs.
4. Loving them for what they are:
Unconditional support from women is what snaps men out of their
boyish behaviours and injects them with a desire to be a stronger man. Only
when we accept men as they are, who they are, only then will they want to
become someone better.
Inside every man is a boy who forgets he’s a man sometimes. And
every boy gets into things, not because he’s bad but because he’s got a curious
mind and a short attention span. Don’t love them for their face but by how you
feel about them.
5. Quality Time with their Ladies:
Men and women both connect through intimacy and communication,
but generally, women connect better through verbal communication and men
connect better through intimacy. Men express their emotions through sex &
not just by saying ‘I Love you’ but by showing it with their actions.
The situation is different for women but in order to understand
what your man is trying to say, you must be used to spending that ‘quality
time’ with him. Every man expects that from a relationship.
6. Letting men be men:
Let him be what he is. Don’t change him for your sake. He might
be irritating at times, try to love him more in that phase. Love, itself, is an
unconditionally implied feeling and women tend to understand it better than
men.
Therefore, a man secretly expects women to be the settlers, the
ones who understand everything. Let your man be himself, it will only make you
lovelier in his eyes.
7. Be the savior:
They want to be your Superman. They want to carry you in their
arms and show you the world. Or, at least, feel that way. And they know it’s
their job to get there, but nothing gives them more strength than a woman who
creates a space that makes them feel invincible.
If you make them feel invincible, they’ll make you feel like
you’re the most beautiful creature on this planet.
8. Workout together:
There’s nothing sexier than working out with your intimate partner.
Watching you sweat and work on your body only encourages them to work on theirs
as well. They get to see the raw and real you, a different type of naked.
Now, if they do this together, they’re in the act of building
something, a lifestyle. They’re not just talking. They’re doing. And that’s
hot.
9. Make incentives:
Be each other’s inspiration. Never let your partner feel down.
Possess a unique power to inspire him. Let him feel your positive energy &
don’t let him feel inferior by your behaviour.
Motivate your man & be a part of each & every moment,
whether it is a great situation or a bad one of their life. Every man expects
unity from their companion before they enter a relationship.
10. Show it out!
When you are with your partner, be present. Look at your partner
— in your partner’s eyes, if you can. Listen. Care about what your partner is
saying and feeling. Be responsive. A lack of presence indicates that you are
disconnected from both yourself and your partner, so if you want to connect, you
need to learn to be present in the moment with your partner.
That is one of the most desirable things for him in a
relationship.
11. Excitement:
The majority of men who are bored of their relationships are not
dull themselves but it is the women who kill the excitement. While some of the
women are really good at keeping up with a relationship, a great lot fails at
keeping it exciting.
Guys expect a relationship to be exciting. Intimacy, movie
nights, cuddling and tickling, cooking together etc. are little things that
every guy expects from a relationship. It is natural for men to crave
happiness.
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Are you doing all these things to keep your guy happy? Let me
know in the comments below!
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