Do you constantly check up on what your ex doing? Do you get jealous when you see photos of her with other guys on Facebook? Do you get angry when you see her doing something fun? Then you probably haven’t moved on, which is a sign that you’re not ready to fully commit to your current partner, he says.
“Women feel uncomfortable with you being online friends with an ex because they feel threatened by them,” says Hokemeyer. “For some reason, they are insecure in the relationship.”
So before you take any action to unfriend or unfollow, spend sometime figuring out what it is that’s actually making her feel insecure—then take action accordingly.
Why it counts: Before you freak out, only 22 percent of women consider watching P0*n without her cheating. And most of the time, P0*n is actually pretty harmless. In fact, your partner should respect your individuality when it comes to se*uality, says Greer.
But it may start to affect your relationship if it becomes excessive, says Hokemeyer. Why? P0*n can take you out of your primary relationship and into a fantasy world you don’t really want to leave, he explains. If watching X-rated videos gets you off more than your partner does, then that’s a problem.
Your move: Her annoyance with P0*n is rooted in her ego, says Hokemeyer. If she catches you watching it without her, she might feel as though she doesn’t satisfy you on her own, so it’s your job to assure her that she does.
Then, offer to watch it with her, suggests Hokemeyer. Research even suggests that couples who watch X-rated videos together are more sexually satisfied than those who don’t.
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