Kate Henshaw got separated from her husband in 2011 and has been single ever since. The 42 year old actress speaks on why she is still single and the reason she is only focusing on her career for now: I just decided that, ok, it didn’t work. Next, I had to move on. There is no need holding on to the past - no need holding on to something if it’s not working any more. There is no need flogging a dead horse since it is already lifeless. And when you decide to bury the horse, would you not leave the grave site afterwards? You would go now. Anything that happens to you now, that sun would still set, another day would come. So, it’s your choice to either be part of the living or be in the grave yard. And I choose to be alive, enjoy my life and smile at everything that is happening - good or bad. As long as God is with you, things would always be fine with you.